DragonCookie - you don't have to go to meetings. I work full time and take maybe one day off per year to attend a meeting, but there are other ways you can get involved, e.g. helping out with Breastfeeding Education classes (these are usually run in the weekends), or working at the Baby Expo or other events where the ABA have a stand. Or you can do some admin work from home, e.g. answering emails for your local group. Don't be discouraged...