Thank you SO much everyone for your replies .

Bath - Thanks for pointing out the benefits for myself . It definitely helps me see things differently. And you're right, it really is for such a short period of my life in the scheme of things.

Jennifer - Well done on BF'ing your DD! What an amazing effort . Your DD sounds like she has an awesome immune system!! I've also recently discovered how great vapourisers are!

Kungfubecca - Thanks for sharing. It sounds like weaning your DS was stress free .

Thanks for the link Heaven, it is just what I needed

sloane - Yep, I love the excuse to sit down for 5 or 10 minutes too .

I really appreciate everyone taking the time to reply. After reading all of your responses and having a chat to DH about it all, I feel comfortable continuing BF'ing DD for much longer now. DH was great and really supportive of BF'ing DD beyond 12 months, I think this clinched the deal for me knowing he didn't feel weird about it IYKWIM?

You have all helped take the weight from my shoulders .