I'm really pleased that this thread has helped you. It can be really daunting wondering how things will work with a new baby.

I want to get BF estabilished (if possible)
That was exactly what I said before DS1 was born. A friend told me at the time, that bfing is nearly always possible with the right information and support. Turns out I had a really, really difficult start, but she was right - she referred me to the ABA and I got the right information and support and was able to establish bfing and continue. If you are having difficulties after the baby is born, give the ABA helpline number a call - 1800 mum 2 mum. It is toll free and 24 hours and you don't have to be a member. It can make a huge difference!

Best of luck with it all hun. It is great that you are preparing yourself early. I can't wait to read your birth announcement!