thanks mbear

yeah, after his sleep getting worse & worse in his cot (5 re-settles in two hours) i just sleep in the spare bed with him. it's helped in that he's straight back to sleep after each feed (except for a recent cheeky habit of staying up for 45m-1hr after one feed each night) & he seems much happier & i'm def getting more sleep this way! i do miss my DP though oh...and i miss my bed