Thanks Gigi - I'll give that a go and see if we can get some better results. I feed her pretty upright because she has reflux but worth trying the lying flat bit and see if that triggers tummy issues

Its not that she's clamping as such - just that she has a small mouth and a "weird tongue attachment" - yes, that is exactly what I was told!! Not a tongue tie as such, and nothing that could ever be rectified, and that combined with her mouth means she's never taken my nipple in very far so its really hard for her teeth not to make some sort of contact. I'm finding feed times are really unpleasant for both of us with me in pain and her getting frustrated because I'm frequently taking her off and trying to get a better attachment. She's also a very lazy feeder - just attaches and then waits for letdown without actually doing anything to trigger it herself other than just being there ;-) Not entirely sure how my worst feeder by so so far has become the one I have feed significantly longer than the others?? Probably pure pigheadedness on my part I think.

Thanks very much ladies