I tend to think "it's not their child and they are not going to be the ones dealing with a child who simply does not understand the 'shame' imposed on BFing mummies for just doing what is natural and normal". So, like MaryDean, I feed wherever, with a definite air of defiance and thus far the only person who's ever made comment was my mum, when DS was about 6 months old! I've re-educated her now, though