at the sweeping andi.

Yeah, as andi said, it somehow just works. Books, snacks 9like boxes of sultanas) and good old tv (hello, Bob the builder) worked wonders here. Ds was 21 months when dd was born. it gets easier the further in you get- the feeds get shorter and attachment isn't as tricky. Just go with the flow- i remember feeling awful about ds watching tv every time I fed dd the first couple of weeks, till I clicked that it wasn't going to be this was forever- it was just surivial tactics till we got back on our feet.

HTH