ooooh thank you girls for posting. So it may not really be a big deal after all? I will still keep offering it to her even if she has a little suck here and there but it's not like the early days/months where I 'needed' her to feed off that side and it was stressful so that's ok.

DD co-sleeps with us and she is on my right side (in her cot pulled against our bed) so my R side just gets flopped out all night long any wonder it's her favourite....