Oh i forgot.
Ashley is in her own room too.
I found that myself or dh would wake her through the night (coughing /snoring whatever) and she would wake me with all her noises and neither of us (although dh did lol) had great sleeps.

The first night she went to her own room (at 3 months) is when she went from 2 hourly feeds over night to 1-2 feeds overnight and it was bliss for everyone as she woke rested and so did i.

I have the monitor on low so i only hear her if she is awake - cause otherwise if she is semi awake and lets out sobs she often settles herself and then it doesnt wake me up - which is course causes me to run to her and wake her up fully..

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