I think the worst thing you can do is set up any sort of expectations here. So your DH expecting you to BF no matter what - that's a very stressful expectation. But I also think you need to relax about it all a bit as well, and try not to put any stipulations on how long etc you will or will not bf for. Saying you *will* only bf for a short time may not be realistic, you may very well find that bf is easier this time and that things click more and you're able to keep going. My biggest piece of advice is to try not to put expectations on yourself, your DH or your bub and try to go with the flow