I get the your not going to feed them both are you? from people, or they ask do you plan to tandem feed? then nod blankly when I say thats the plan. So I can totally sypathise. People can be quite narrow minded and lacking in tact sometimes. I am pretty good at ignoring it now though.

As for toddlers grabbing for it out in public, Noah is pretty good for the most part but when he wants it bad enough he grabs at it, it is his only form of letting me know as he doesn't vocalise it yet. It's can't always be helped. I do then assume feeding position with him across my lap but am not so sure that will work for so mouch longer due to the expanding belly and when bub is here and he wants a feed at the same time... I can see the challenge now...

Jodie, what an awful and tactless thing to be told. Some people don't have even an ounce of sensitivity in them. Maybe they loathe themselves so much they have to make others feel just as crap.

Teeth!!! Noahs teeth graze my nipples sometimes but it only makes them mildly sore. I have been very extremely lucky and have never had a problem with feeding or nipple problems, I only hope to continue being so lucky.