stop the guilt pz. seriously. ds1 weaned when i was 25 weeks pg, and i decided i was ok with that. he had had a good run at it- he fed for 14 months and i was ok with that. ds2 came along and fed for 20 months. sometimes things just happen because that happen iykwim? idk, i just don't want you feeling bad for being pg and adding to your family.