Gig, big big hugs my dear I feel ill thinking of what you must have gone through in there. Of course as mothers we sometimes make mistakes, but usually our gut instinct is right. And you know what? Even if your BM IS irrelevant (which it's not), so what if she's still BFing? It's not hurting anyone, least of all Bilby. Misinformation makes me really cross.

I'm glad you're all home safe and sound, and happy to hear that Bilby is eating more solids, because I know that will make you happy Keep on enjoying the BFing hun, it's such a short time in their lives..........before you know it she'll be running off to school.

Great to have you back Gigi