Thank u all so much for your advice. It is finally nice to have somewhere to ask questions without feeling like i am being juged or doing it all wrong ( haven't got the most approachable Child Nurse )

He has between 4-6 feeds a day and sometimes 2 a night. He has always been a fussy eater and in the beginning we had a hard time establishing due to DS having a severe Tounge tie, after alot of tears, nipple cream and trips to the Docs/Nurse we decided to have it snipped at 3 months which fixed the problem instantly. Due to both of us pushing through this barrier I don't really want him to wean just yet, but need to be able to leave him in care occasionally!

I will try just the cup and forget the bottle for awhile and see how we go. As for the solids he will eat anything he can hold i just wasn't sure if that was enough for now. However from all of your replies it sounds like i should relax a little and let him do the driving!!