Thanks for your kind words & support, it really means a lot.

Marcellus, I am aiming for a VBAC but conscious of the fact that I have to be prepared for another c-section if things don't go to plan. So the ideal goal is a lovely vaginal birth and to do baby-led attachment as soon as we can, skin to skin immediately etc. But I know I can work that all into a c-section back-up plan too.

Jennifer, I was a member of the ABA before DS was born and still am. They were helpful to connect with the first time, so I'll definitely be using them again. And I'm booking into one of their classes as well. You're so right - this time around, I'm more aware of the perils and obstacles that can crop up, so will be on the lookout for all the early signs. The LCs at the hospital were fantastic ladies and so supportive, but they were so busy in their clinic - dealing with lots of other mums going through similar things. So I will stay in touch with them, as well as have someone on hand to come to my home privately for that additional one-to-one support.

Thanks again x