Hugs to you! I remember it well from DS1 although he'd never been a terribly fabulous sleeper before. I don't know if you can do it, but I ended up going to a day service settling/sleep clinic thing to get him used to going to sleep without having to feed. It didn't magically make him sleep longer overnight, but gradually he did get better at going back to sleep between cycles. Even now we still use some of the techniques from then... he has music going softly for his day nap and sometimes stll sit and pat his bottom (although now he requests it when he's having trouble winding down). He needs one of us sitting beside him while he drifts off at night and if he wakes at all during the night, which still happens every few days too. I found back then that expressing so someone else could feed him was just more work for me. He didn't start solids til 7 months and that didn't change the waking thing either. This time around I'm consciously reminding myself that the hug police are not going to walk through the door and we co sleep whenever we need to. It's a matter of time and yep, it sucks! But remember you're not alone - you have the rest of us sleep deprived bellybelly girls to keep you company in the wee hours via cyber space. Hope it gets a bit better for you every day.