Thanks everyone...

Funny you mention ABA, I've just come home from our local meeting and had a chat with the girls there. Feeling much better about things again...I tend to go off on these "I need this baby to sleep through" tangents every few months but usually they manage to convince me that we're doing OK and it's all normal!

Would still like to work on dropping that middle feed but will wait until after he is well again. He's got a temp tonight but has been fine with DH until I got home at 10.30pm, he did wake but DH settled him quite easily.

Mbear - totally jealous but totally happy for you!!