Well yet again, BFing problems are in my house (not surprising really, if I actually had a child who could attach I'd probably die from shock!!!)

So we've made the decision for me to express because I think I'm a pretty good milk maker, but I'm just wondering how often I should be expressing - my milk has only JUST come in this morning (amazingly took longer to come in than it did from both my c-sections?) and I have expressed already because I felt like my boobs were going to explode, and got 20mls after 10 minutes on each side.

How often should I be expressing while being so full? I don't mind generating an awesome supply obviously, as I would love to get a good stockpile happening whilst I have my mum and DH here at home to help with the other kids while I express.

Any help would be awesome!! (Oh, but please no comments about me not having her attached to my breast, because she doesn't open her mouth, she doesn't lower her tongue, and on the rare occasion that she DOES get attached, she pushes her bottom lip up and clamps down on my nipple every single time - so better for my mental health that I don't try to continue cos I get too frustrated with her. Being my last baby, I just want to enjoy her, and not get angry at her because she won't open her bloomin' mouth!)