I think it is important too note that the OP has asked for support more than opinions.
Im not at all 'pointing fingers' by any means because I do feel everyone has posted soemthing that is of a supportive nature, but let's all be careful with our typed words and their perciev-ed understanding.
This is NOT an anti-FF thread after all, and whatever the OP decides should be without judgement or criticism from other members, BUT with support and empathy.

Again, I am speaking on behalf of myself, not for the OP or anyone else.
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