Oh, it's tough, isn't it?

I have one question - if she's not feeding, will someone else be getting up to resettle her when she wakes? Cause there are no guarantees that even if you can night wean that she'll stop waking so much. And if it's still you getting up.... well, you see where I'm heading.

Try by all means, but if you meet very stiff resistence, maybe allow for the possibility that she really isn't ready. She *might* still need it nutritionally - DS switched from milk to bananas (they're just handy) from 14 till 18 months. Obviously that's not typical, but I'm just making that point.

But I would give it a good crack, say 1-2 weeks, because they can be ever so stubborn. The first few nights will be hardest most likely, but hopefully will get easier from there.

Really hope you find a way to get some more sleep