Today sounds like it's been much better for you - that's great. Most babies that age will have 8 - 12 feeds in 24 hours, and it sounds like this is what your DD is heading to. Certainly the nappy count is great and suggests that she is getting enough milk - at least 5 heavily wet disposables or 6 - 8 clear wet cloth nappies is a good sign, and the dirty nappies sound really good too (well, not for you changing them but they show that she is getting enough milk which is good).

It does sound a bit like your let down is a bit too slow for your DD's liking - so if leaning forward works, that might be one thing to keep doing as long as you are not hurting your back by doing this. Side-lying might be another position that works for you - it can take a bit of practice but many mums find it's very restful feeding lying down also. Another option is to express a little bit before the feed so that your DD doesn't have to wait for a let down.

One other thing that many mums find is that crying is a late sign of hunger. If your DD is crying when you attach her, it can make it more difficult. It might help to offer her a feed a little bit earlier - if you see signs of her mouthing or sucking her fist, or if it's been about 2 hours since the last feed and she's awake.

See how that goes for you, and let us know. Best of luck hun.