Thanks for all the feedback and encouragment... I still have my breast pump so that is something i can try, i know there is an ABA meeting place right across from the hospital ill be going to, so i might go in first and have a chat with someone later on in my pregnancy, ill definatly keep in mind about the medela website too, ive heard alot about nipple shields, i did send dh down to the chemist to get one last time and it was massive so obviously didnt work but it was a big rubbery thing, hopefully if i do need to get one next time i can get the silicon type..my friend said she used one like that and it was brillant.
I guess i just need to relax and stop worrying until the time comes and then see if im having trouble or not...
Thanks again.