oh sweetie I could have written that exact same post!!! The first month was a blur.... Aiden acted out a bit because I couldn't give him all the attention... So I would sit in his room while I fed Charlotte and play trains with him!! As ackward as that was it helped.. I also would put a DVD on for him or get him to sit with me while I read a book... I gave him a teddy so that he could give it 'boobie milk too!'.... then eventually once we all got used to each other it became easier and Aiden is alot more settled..

You are doing an awesome job .... it is harder second time round but you will find your groove and will have more 'better days' xxx I promise