I had an awe inspiring letdown with my second. I had to lean right back so he didn't do that initial suck and then almost drown. But it never was a problem for us in the long run, my supply settled a bit eventually but he never went hungry. I too found it a bit weird that my first bub would take 40min to feed (that was approx 20min each side, muuuuch longer at the start, a feed could take an hour), but my second was all done, just one side thanks mum, in 10 minutes.

I'm no breastfeeding counsellor, but if the nappies are wet and he's regular, then I'd just try to enjoy it! If attachment isn't hurting you then I'd say it's okay attachment. And if down the track your supply does drop off for some reason, then we can deal with that then, there are heaps of ways you can encourage supply to increase.

Try not to worry...if he's happy and feeding well, but it's just different to your first bub, just kick back and enjoy it I think. xo