Hi hun,

Sounds like it's possibly Raynaud's syndrome/phenomenon/vasospasm (not sure of the difference between all three). Google it for some more info and to see if you fit the descriptions. I have this and can relate to much of what you've said. Have you ever seen it turn from white to pink? Main treatment is to keep really really warm all of the time (warm drink before a feed can help) - there are supplements that help some women, and there is a drug you can try if nothing else works.

I'm afraid my DS is only 15 weeks, so can't help with the sleeping sorry. Hope you get it sorted!

Hugs xo