Mums (both are own and our friends who are mums but choose to use a different method to introduce solids to their kids) are great for planting seeds of doubt in our minds, hey? I remember questioning myself several times when we first started introducing solids, usually brought on by other people's questioning.
I have every faith that DD would let you know if she was hungry. If she's perfectly happy, gaining weight accordingly, still having wet and dirty nappies, then all is good. By all accounts from what you've been saying on here and on facebook I thing she's going great guns with BLS and doing exactly as you would expect. At the beginning they don't eat a lot, but they are still getting plenty of milk for nutrition and I've found with my DD she's developed in lots of little leaps too. As much as it pains me to admit it, it's not unusual for them to still be waking in the night too. I know you've done all your research and you know all the 'food's for fun until their one' etc stuff already, but I know it's easy to question when others are questioning you (and it's our jobs as mums to question too). Don't worry, you are doing great .
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