Thank you to everyone who has posted its been a great help! Last night I had a nice little chat to my husband about it all and we are now in agreement that Thomas will continue to be fed by me until he decideds he no longer wants to. Regarding the sleeping thing we have decided to put Thomas in his cot but if he wakes up once were in bed we will bring him into our bed. We did this last night and it worked quite well, he didnt wake up until 2 so I fed him and that was him done until about 6.30ish so that was great!
It really is nice to know that there are people out there for suport when you really need it, all my family are in England!
Thanks
Sus xx