Thanks HotI and wysiwyg!
I've been doing the massage with electric toothbrush the last couple of days.
I just tried the dangle feeding. DS did pretty well at it for a few minutes then wasn't into it anymore. I'll keep at it. I think it could really help. I was struggling to find a way to get his chin on the spot (yep 2 o'clock wysiwyg) and finding football holds difficult now he's so big and also not really hitting the right spot. He normally has his chin around 4 o'clock so this is right at the opposite side, probably why it's having trouble.
If it's not better soon I'll contact a lactation consultant.
Really don't want it to get infected again, that really sucked.

I'll have to give ice a go too. Though I must admit I'm struggling a bit to be so coordinated with the right temperature compresses at the right times. I'll just have to make it more of a priority and try to get it set up for the next feed.