Thanks ladies for your replies.

Kaz that really is helpful to think of it like that. V has dramatically cut down her bfs but that is because we are in such a good routine now and she knows what happens when so I dont think she wants to snack anymore which is fine with me. I really enjoy our bf relationship and am happy to continue as long as she is happy and just do a morning and night feed but faced with the prospect of her weaning altogether I really felt a bit panicky.. I have heared a lot of stories that once a bottle is introduced they dont want boobie anymore... I would be so sad if that happened.

Also thanks re the water. I feel like there is something wrong as she really doesnt want it but i always have it there. Every now and then she will have a bit but not really enough to count..She will drink the bathwater though....

Minny Im glad to know your ds has picked it right back up again. Thanks