Emmjayt - I too have tubular breasts and have not been able to exclusively feed either of my two boys. I just wanted to say you are doing a fabulous job and that I know it can be really hard.

I found that it was difficult to judge what was just normal newborn unsettledness and cluster feeding vs genuinely hungry. I also found it stressful counting the number of wet and dirty nappies and tracking the weight gain/loss.

To be honest one of the hardest parts was dealing with probreastfeeding advice too (which I think is totally fantastic generally) BUT what will work for 99% of the population who can exclusively breastfeed doesn't mean that you will be able to exclusively breastfeed. I know that is what you are hoping for, but any amount of breastmilk is beneficial for baby.

Many people confuse what is a genuine physical inability to produce enough milk with a low supply that can be corrected with changes to attachment, feeding times etc. You are doing everything that I was told to do to get as much milk as I can into my bubs.

It may be worth while to see a lactation consultant again - you might be able to see one through your child health service or similar. I found that my visit at 3 months was reassuring in that they told me I was doing everything I could. It would be worthwhile to try and see one you saw earlier as they are more likely to believe you.