I found the best way to wind my babies were to sit them on my knee and put my hand under and around their neck and then bend them forward and back slowly a few times till they burped. However, this didn't always work. Both are refluxers (still at 18 months and 4 yrs old) and bad wind and reflux often go together. I found letting them comfort feed did make it worse, but I would do anything to help them feel better even if only for the time feeding.