Thanks girls, that is great information. I visited on Thursday which was 24 weeks and she really can't talk babies yet so I did not talk to her about feeding. I think it is a protection mechanism as while she is only this far along, the outcome could go either way I guess. Next week she is being transferred to Jessie Mac. at Monash which has the special care nursery for very premmies (I can never remember if that is a 3rd level or 1st level).
Brendan's mum, gosh he was a tiny thing. must have been a very scary time for you.
Nadine, good on you donating to the milkbank. I don't think we have them here yet.