Results 1 to 13 of 13

Thread: Boys and the Beach....

  1. #1

    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Dandenong Ranges, Melbourne.
    Posts
    5,673

    Default Boys and the Beach....

    My Dh grew up just down the road from a beach and spent much of his childhood in the water doing various water sports- surfing, waterskiing, boating, swimming and just generally having fun.
    He has now moved away from the beach and now that we have the 2 boys of our own- has become obsessed with bringing them up near water.
    i grew up a good 1.5hrs drive from the nearest surf beach, so never really experienced 'beach culture' the way that he did (except on various summer holidays i guess). i am happy with where we live (same area as i grew up in), but dh is becoming increasingly restless and is convinced that as our boys get older they will become bored, and doesn't want them to miss out on being surfie boys
    how important do you think it is for boys to be near the water? would you uproot your family to be near the beach? any experiences?


  2. #2

    Join Date
    Feb 2007
    Location
    In the jungle.
    Posts
    4,809

    Default

    Boys girls or otherwise i would definitely uproot my family to be near the ocean. But i think i have salt water in my veins. We've always lived near the ocean, it's killing me being so far away.
    I don't think kids who don't live near the ocean miss out, and i think your boys will be fine wherever you live. But when you've grown up with that lifestyle and loved it so much i can definitely understand why he wants that for his boys.

  3. #3

    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Dandenong Ranges, Melbourne.
    Posts
    5,673

    Default

    you wouldn't be so positive if you knew which particular beach he was talking about

  4. #4

    Join Date
    Feb 2007
    Location
    In the jungle.
    Posts
    4,809

    Default

    If it's in NSW it is a TERRIBLE idea.

  5. #5

    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Brisbane
    Posts
    6,683

    Default

    Hun, my boys do just fine not living near the beach. But I guess it's what you are used to. My BIL grew up by the beach and wouldn't move away for anything, so I can see how it's different if you are used to something. Is there anywhere you could live that would be a compromise?

  6. #6

    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Dandenong Ranges, Melbourne.
    Posts
    5,673

    Default

    yes this is definitley a compromise. i have said that i will only do 'beach' if it is a small coastal/ country town type place. definitely not near a big city. i'm sort of open to the idea, i quite like the idea of moving to a nice small community. i guess i just don't place as much importance on being near water as he does, but like you say, i guess it's just whatever you're used to.

  7. #7

    Join Date
    Nov 2009
    Location
    In Paradise
    Posts
    2,022

    Default

    We are about to make the move

    hubby grew up there too and love sthe beach lifestyle etc
    I love the beach too and the thought of moving now has me all excited except for moving away from my family
    But we can't affrd to buy here
    We can there
    We are 45 minutes in good traffic to the beach
    There we can walk to the beach
    Here I cant get DS is a playgroup (too full) or Preschool / Daycare of any kind
    There they have several cheap playgroups and preschools with availabilities

    It would be a great place to raise a family
    We are up 4 it
    have you thought about it anymore?
    Where is it BTW?

  8. #8

    Join Date
    Sep 2007
    Location
    travelling
    Posts
    9,557

    Default

    Ok, well neither of us grew up near the beach. (Dubbo! so not even close! lol)
    I always wanted to live on the beach. Always loved visiting Grandma here.
    When I was 17 I convinced mum we needed to move. DH came too. I love it, he doesn't. He doesn't get the whole 'water' thing, lol.

    We've done both since having the kids. Bush & beach. I do love both lifestyles, but I choose beach for my kids. This way they have the best of both worlds. They can just go hang at the beach, go for a surf, etc. But at the same time, we go out to mum & dad's, 40 minutes away & ride motorbikes & have bonfires too. They also spend time out west & go yabbying etc.

    We live in a beautiful little coastal town a bit south of Coffs. Small community, but a holiday village, so there are people always coming & going. There so many things here for the kids to do. Nippers, athletics, surfing. During the christmas holidays the AOC (I think, we call them the God squad) come & set up a camp on the cricket oval for the whole 6 weeks & have a huge range of activities for all the kids to participate in. You don't have to be part of their camp, & its all free.

    I'm so happy here. You have to be on your toes, because there are always strangers in town, due to it being a holiday town, but its also pretty close knit
    West will always be home to me though. It is me iykwim.

  9. #9

    Join Date
    Aug 2006
    Location
    Terrace BC, Canada
    Posts
    1,004

    Default

    I grew up without a beach nearby and did just fine. I'm however currently living 15 mins from a gorgeous beach now and have to say I am loving it, as is DS. If we ever move away I may have a hard time too, it's so nice to have.

  10. #10

    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Dandenong Ranges, Melbourne.
    Posts
    5,673

    Default

    thanks for all your input

    mum2 ramone- the kind of area we would be looking in would be around gerringong- near nowra sort of area south of sydney.

    i'm still not sure how i feel about it all

  11. #11

    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    Location
    Perth
    Posts
    2,088

    Default

    Ginger I know how your DH feels. I grew up in a 'surfie beach loving family' we always lived on the coast, in fact I think I was practically raised on the beach! My dad is still a surfer! While my DH is hopeless in water, never went to the pool let alone the beach when he was a child. If we could afford a coastal property here we would move in an instant, I love taking M to the beach and she loves it too. I think I could definately move to the coast for the sake of the kids, its such a fun outdoors lifestyle. I think it would be great for the boys.

  12. #12

    Default

    I don't really get the beach (I'm not fond of sand or sunburn) but I do get wanting to move to somewhere that your children can have a more active, outdoorsy lifestyle and be part of a smaller community.

  13. #13

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Onyx View Post
    I do get wanting to move to somewhere that your children can have a more active, outdoorsy lifestyle and be part of a smaller community.
    yep for me this is what it is about...summed up perfectfly onyx...

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •