LOL, yep girls, I am a coppers wife. Thankyou for all of your replies.

Mel, I'd love to move to the sunny coast! But these postings are only in NSW, since DH is a NSW copper I did think about the BB community. But I just don't know how big these communities are. If there's like 200 people, or 2000. Obviously the more people, the more chance I have of making friends!

It's just a bit scary for me because I have never moved out of my comfort zone. THough a tree change does sound lovely. I'm not sure how remote these places actually are. I mean, I'd say they are pretty far from much, with only one or two cops for the area? I don't know. DH was just thinking out loud and I'm not sure if he was serious, but it really got me thinking. It's not really something we have discussed or anything. I don't really have anything keeping me here besides my family. It's not as if I love the area we live in. I hate it actually. So going somewhere pretty, or just different would be a positive thing I think. But the biggest hurdle for me is the personal support. Although it's not like I get that much at the momnet. But mum and my brothers are just up the road and if I need it they can be here in 10mins. It's still something DH and I would have to discuss anyhow!!