well if you are starting fresh as in you live in a house with the 3 of you then you will need a bond + 2 weeks rent... can the department of housing help with a bond if necessary?
can you hire a trailor and tow the stuff? is there family who have a trailor that you can borrow or better yet they can tow your stuff for you?
If you need to do a couple of trips backwards and forwards is there someone you can leave DS with in M...? might make the trips a bit easier.

it works out for you