I have come to the realisation its pretty inevitable I'll have to have a c-section to get this little man out. I had a successful ECV on Friday at 37+4 but I'm pretty sure he has turned himself again, so it's highly unlikely they will attempt again and induce me.

So my question is - how long was your recovery time and at what stages were you able to resume some sort of normality in life.

I'm a single mum, DD is 6.5 (year 1 at school, fathers every 2nd weekend) and then there will be bubs.

My sister lives 1.5hrs away and has demanded I stay with her - not ideal due to numerous reasons, not only my mental health but other things.

I have a cleaner come in weekly, so can potentially change this to twice a week, I can try and get someone to pick DD up for school and bring her home, it would just be looking after myself and bubs.

So hit me where it hurts lol!