Ooh interesting thread - like Kelly W I just wanted to add my experience too in case others may read the same thread and find it useful....

what was it like?
I had a vaginal birth first time, second a totally unexpected emergency c-section, and third a planned c-section which was organised from early pregnancy. In terms of stressfulness and uncomfortableness, I would say the vaginal birth was the worst, then the planned c-section and the most pleasant was the emergency c-section. I think that was partly as having a lot of time to plan ahead and read up can cause undue worry, whereas the emergency c-section was upon me before I had a chance to even think about it let alone worry in advance.

good aspects of the surgery?
With both the caesarians, the process was well-organised and predictable. Highly competent medical staff were there for the job; the procedure was quick and my energy was relatively intact in order to respond to my newborn straight away.

not-so-good aspects of the surgery?
Feeling a little wounded for a few days afterwards.

involvement of your partner/DH?
I loved the level of hubby inclusion in the whole thing; he was treated respectfully by all the medical people and able to hold my hand and chat with me the whole time, then take photos/cut the cord/cuddle bub and assist me.

amount of time between the surgery and holding your baby?
Baby was immediately handed to me for a cuddle when she emerged from my body.

recovery issues?
3 and a half days of feeling uncomfortable, then fine but just had to take things a little slowly: not too much walking around or stretching, and not to carry anything heavier than bub. I'm two weeks post c-section at the moment and am finding it fine although I do still need hubby around (he has 3 weeks leave from work) in the day to help with the kids and housework.

tips for good recovery?
Have somebody there, preferably your partner, to help with anything physical until you feel comfortably fit again.

any issues with breastfeeding?
My third bub breastfeeds beautifully - latched on and suckled well while I was in recovery and is a fantastic feeder. Milk came in properly on day 3.

tips for getting yourself psychologically ready for a c-section?
Relax; trust that you will be in good hands; remember that millions of women have happily had c-sections before you.