Miss H, it sounds like you are happy with the decision you have made. Good on you. It is your decision and it doesn't matter what other people think about it.
A friend of mine was in a similar situation recently. Except that for most of her pregnancy she was fighting for the right to VBaC. But in the end, she decided for a repeat elective c/s because she didn't like the chance of having anotehr emergency c/section. Because it was planned, they tried to keep her as involved as possible, she got to hold and feed her son immediately and all in all she was extremely happy with the birth of her second son. With her first, she didn't get to hold him until 3 hours after the birth and she found that quite traumatic. She also recovered much quicker after the second c/s. So things can go very smoothly. She does feel a little sad that she never got to experience a natural birth, but as i said, she is genuinely happy with how things went.
All the best with your birth.

SAša