Hi guys,so dont really know where to start but here goes-

Im 36wks pg with bub no.2 DD is 2 1/2 and was a VB. I had high BP was induced at 9am she was born at 12.30pm. No time for any pain relief and ended up with a 3rd degree tear Although I had the tearing I recovered very well and have never had any problems. Didnt give it a second though this time round and was happy to do VB again untill I started going to the clinic (Im going public after weighting the whole public vs private thing up lol!) and was asked everytime how bowel movements and urine (?) movements were. Each time I said it was all great with no probs they all seemed quiet surprised! This got me thinking and they had mentioned a csection but I thought it was up to the doctor but found out last week its up to me! So now Im totally confused and would love to hear your feedback.
My main concern is recovery after with having a toddler. My DH has 4/5wks off work so will be able to help but Im concerned I wont be able to pick her up or jump in bed with her (incase its painful to get out!) and just doing general day to day things. Also would like to know risks involed for baby and me.
Have my next appointment tomorrow so will be asking lots of questions but would love to hear from you to!

Thanks in advance!