I had a CS with my first bub and a VB with my second. There were many reasons I wanted the VB but high on the list was recovery. My DS was just 18 months old when my DD was born and I knew still being able to pick him up and be a "normal" Mummy was what I wanted to do. He needed to feel included and have extra cuddles after his little sister joined us and not being to pick him up, get him out of his cot etc was not what I wanted. If you recovered well the fist time and had no ongoing probs if I were you I would go for the VB again.

Good luck xx