when will the c/section stop being looked as second best
does it really matter how you baby got here as long as it is alive and healthy

elective for me next time, and glad to one have one scar
It's not about c/s being 2nd best, I just hated the whole experience. I hated having my baby taken away from me and having everyone in my family hold my baby before I got to. Not to mention the 6 weeks of pain after and a highly unhelpful DH so I had to do everything whilst in serious pain.