Linda - once again I am shocked! What type of a person asks you how you birthed your baby. I have had many friends and other people around me give birth. I have never once asked how the baby was born. It never even occurred to me to ask. For one, does it really matter as long as it is healthy, and two, who cares. It is none of my business why they chose to birth their baby the way they did. I am just so sorry that you were confronted by selfish, insensitive, heartless people.

Tommysmum - I feel the same as you. I lost Cooper to a cord accident. I have sat here thinking how do I give birth vaginally again. I really really want to but I could never forgive myself if something happened and I had to birth another sleeping baby. People need to understand that we all make decisions that is best for us and it shouldn't matter how or why we have reached our decision. Why do people care anyway, does it affect them, does it make a difference on their life. I am still weighing up the pros and cons for both but the one thing that sticks out for me is losing another baby. I can't go through this pain again.