I had a morning C-Sect booked and had told everyone that no one was allowed to visit until after our other child had met the baby first. I don't know what everyone thought about this (didn't ask them). DH is the one to give instructions to - there is no way nurses/midwives can take the baby to meet anyone without the parent's permission, so as long as you both have the same plan, you'll be ok.

I actually ended up going into labour the day before anyway so best laid plans and all that........