maz - i am a nurse and i didnt know what a s & s was until i came on here. its a midwife thing and unless u work in womens health, u wouldnt know what it was!!

i had a c section (had no choice) and i know what your feelings are associated with it. the best thing to do is give lots of TLC and let her know that its still all ok and she hasnt failed at all and her little one will still love her no matter how she/he entered the world. big hugs