We all know what I'm talking about. That awful sagging flap of flesh where my tummy once was. My scar is very tidy, and despite their initial concerns of uretic injury, the drs did a bang up job. On that part anyway, lol. We'll just gloss over the rest this time! But what is up with my poor tummy?

It's like my stitches were too tight. I know this isn't the case, but my stomach was never perfectly flat. Now, right at the site of the scar, it is. Here's the problem- it doesn't match the floppy top lol.

As far as I know, it happens to all 'scalpel mamas'. But after 8 months, I'm over it. My tummy is so bulky at the bottom from the flappage and scar tissue, people ask me if I am pg . And I'm sick of every pair of pants, skirt, everything slipping down into what I call the cravass. It's uncomfortable, and my scar hurts when this happens.

So how do I reduce the flappage? Other than wearing granny knickers which come up so high they crush your ribs. No jokes. Am I forever doomed to hate my belly and be in pain from my clothes? What about another pg? Will my scar still hurt as much then? Will my belly sustain even worse damage? So many questions.

So, fellow ladies of the knife, enlighten me!