I always say when I gave birth or when DD was born. To me it makes no difference to how DD was born as I had no issues with having an emerg. c-sect. I know some people don't class it as giving birth & suffered trauma from not having a vaginal birth. I don't have an issue with them saying that, that is how they feel and I respect that.
seriously love ignore her. It takes even more courage to lay down for a c/s, to save your bubbas life, than it does to birth vaginally. Especially if you know how hard it can be to recover. No easy way out there, but a whole hell of a lot of sacrafice from a mamma who loves her bubba. A think you gave birth..... You gave her life and birth thru the safest method for her, with the assistance of a dr. Hugs. That is a very insensitve thing to say to you.
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