Thanks girls I did do an Antenatal Class at MMH first time around and found it really good.

I have been on youtube watching a few vids and I seem to have a good feel for what is happening. I have also started a birth plan, in which one of my requests is for them to tell me what they are doing and when they are doing it so that I feel involved.

I also discussed the c/s with the Midwife at my appointment yesterday and they are very pro-mother choices ITMS? Like they want me to make it my experience and are happy to hear all requests from me before, during and afterwards.