I've had 6 children, including twins no problems but then #7 was transverse due to the 'extra room' apparently. Before I had a c/s I thought that all that mattered was that the baby was fine and it didnt matter how the baby got here. But I didnt realise the effects it would have psychologically on me. I just felt traumatised and violated and freaked out that I'd been cut into! And it took a long time to recover physically and definitely emotionally. I feel like I should be apologising to all the c/s mums out there for not taking the drama of giving birth via c/s seriously enough.
Of course I look at my beautiful little princess who is without a doubt the best 2 year old in the world (ok bit biased) and I know that her being safely born was the most important thing. BUT Anyone who has to have a caesar for whatever reason has a right to feel freaked out.
I do wonder how much is hormonal though and being in pain post-op and especially if it is a first baby - with all those 'new mum nerves"

I'm due in August and aiming for a VBAC solely because of the 'recovery time' thing with other kids to look after and havent enjoyed this pregnancy much so far because of worrying about how to cope with another c/s.