I hear what you're saying Marydean but I also think there's a time and a place to start offering information. Meringue stated on several occasions that she did not want information about the pros/cons of caesars - I can understand why she would have felt she wasn't being listened to. Instead, people kept pointing her in the direction of information that she'd clearly said she didn't want. Now obviously we are a well-meaning bunch on BB and we want the best outcome for her but we're banging our heads against a brick wall if we don't listen. We may have to agree to disagree but I don't think Meringue was treated respectfully and we are meant to be about gentleness and respect.