Yep I got all of the things on your list in my elective CS in a public hospital.

The things on my birthplant were - immediate skin to skin contact, attempt to BF in theatre if poss and definitely in recovery, baby stays with me in recovery, baby has all checks done where I am, etc. The hospital were happy to comply but in the end having baby with me in recovery depended on the theatre midwife choosing to come up and stay a while longer with me than she was "supposed" to.

I think in my case, my birth plan was very direct (< 1 page) and only had the things that were most crucially important to me. That made a difference because the staff were happy to read it. I also asked that DH NOT be shown my innards and they were happy to respect that by keeping the screen up and bringing baby to me the moment she was out and breathing. That was my line in the sand for retaining my sense of dignity which was so horribly not respected during my first VB.